The 4 Steps to Change Anything In Your Life
By:
Emmanuel Segui
Do you want to change? Do you have
problems in your life? Would you like to change some traits of
your
personality that you don’t like? For all these
questions, I answer that change is possible. Change denotes the
time period or transition that occurs between one state to
another. This period of transition can be very short or very
long depending of the nature of the change.
NLP gave us tools and resources we will use to change
effectively. Follow the next 4 steps to change anything you want
in life.
1. Believe that your can change.
Tony
Robbins, like a lot of other NLP experts,
said: beliefs shape your destiny. Indeed, what you believe will
dictate the way you think, the way you feel and the way you act.
In this way, beliefs act like a huge magnet that will attract
everything around you that is in accordance with your dominant
thoughts or beliefs. If you don’t think that you can change; if
you believe that “It’s just the way I am”, your first step would
be to find how you can change that belief. Because who told you
that? Where did you learn that you can’t change? Will this
belief help you in any way in the future? Imagine you’re at your
funeral and look back and see all the opportunities you missed
because of a simple limiting belief “I can’t change”, how would
you feel?
2. Decide to change today. Don’t procrastinate. Decide. Decision
can be hard, especially if you know that if you change, you
won’t be the same person anymore. Does that thought scare you?
What if you become a better person? What if you start realizing
your full potential? Would that be awful? Decide today and say
“Yes, I will find a way.”
3. Research how to change. Research how to go from point A to
point B. Go to the Internet and do some research. Searching for
answers is easy if you focus on what you’re searching for. You
will always find if you search; because finding is reserved for
those who search. It’s not reserved for lazy people. “Search and
it will be given unto you” says the ancient scripture. Do you
believe that?
4. Act and change. Once you have found how to go from point A to
point B, it’s time to walk the path of change. Like any path,
you may have challenges. But you exactly know what you want. Go
for it and avoid the problem you want to change. Be proactive or
follow the path of someone who already did it. Action is
inevitable. Action is mandatory. Do you believe that?
NLP has offered a lot of ways to handle change effectively. NLP,
hypnosis and neuro-semantics has modeled
different ways to change limiting thinking and limiting beliefs.
You can change by first believing you can change, deciding you
will change, researching how to change and doing something to
change. You will succeed because you deserve it.
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